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Elyse's avatar

Lanolips!

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Melanie Scherer's avatar

Lucas Papaw ointment with the slight edge over Aquaphor. Currently using both, supplementing with another highly recommended one, Olio e Osso No 1 Clear balm for on the go.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Ok I don't think I've ever tried Lucas Papaw proper -- just the Dr. Pawpaw stuff that duped me into thinking it was the original! I will right this wrong immediately!

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Katherine Lewandowski's avatar

A tub of Vaseline next to the bed. First a layer of cicoplast and then I basically seal my mouth shut every night, and dab a little juusst inside my nostrils. I can’t handle painful dry nose and lips ON TOP of it being winter for 6 months. It’s the only way to survive a Canadian Prairie winter. Plus a humidifier and a sunrise alarm clock.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Sorry but Canadian Prairie winter sounds like an ASMR genre I would love

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Vanessa's avatar

Jack Black Intense Therapy Lip Balm. It’s like Aquaphor, but fancy (with flavors!), and has SPF. I have a tube with me everywhere I go.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Do you ever notice a taste from the SPF? All my SPF lip balms give me a bad taste in my mouth, which I hate

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Sarah's avatar

It’s the only lip SPF I’ve used that doesn’t have a bad taste. And it feels like it actually stays put so you don’t have to reapply as often. Definitely worth a try! Although I haven’t tried the Aquaphor lip SPF to compare

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Natasha Conti's avatar

Same, except it’s better than Aquaphor because it doesn’t have petroleum. Shea butter is the most moisturizing, and I don’t have to reapply it a thousand times a day.

If it’s super windy out or I’m on a plane I’ll use something with wax over it as an additional barrier.

No taste from the spf, Emily, that I’ve ever noticed. I hate that taste too.

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LF's avatar

I learned from Charlotte Palermino to do a layer of water on lips, then balm, THEN aquafor. I do that before bed and it really helps keep my lips healthy!

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joelle hyman's avatar

I think the La Roche Posay Cicaplast Lip Balm and CeraVe Healing Ointment are better :)

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Alison Haljun's avatar

I’m biased but my favorite is Kinship Supermelt Hyaluronic Lip Jelly Treatment. It’s a miracle worker for dry, cracked or chapped lips.

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Mollie Gloss's avatar

Lucas PawPaw ointment - the OG from Australia (red tube with black font - there are many imitators!) It’s fermented papaya powered and I always have it with me. Another tip is put your eye cream or a light lotion on your lips before any occlusives. Our lips need moisture, too! You’ll seal the goodness in after.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Yes need to do pre-balm prep and I always forget

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Mollie Gloss's avatar

It makes such a difference!

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Rachel Ferber's avatar

Blistex Ultra-rich hydration is my favorite. It's not the easiest Blistex version to find, but I think it's the best one they make.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Hi mom

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AA's avatar

Eye cream + Aquaphor at night has worked wonders for my lips, specifically the pyunkang yul black tea eye cream

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Layla's avatar

Lush Lip service. My mom and I hoarded it for Montreal and Chicago winters. Saved my life this summer in NC with an allergic reaction that left my lips peeling and swollen.

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Layla's avatar

I have other tinted ones for the purse but when I need to seriously heal my lips nothing compares.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Adding it to the list!

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Sarah's avatar

This seems to be a sleeper, but CO Bigelow “my favorite night balm” is life changing and the only thing that gets me through NYC winter radiator dryness

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Emily Ferber's avatar

I'll swing by the store! Good excuse to go

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Alexa McGovern's avatar

Bag Balm is my tried and true as a Maine-er

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Gabrielle's avatar

CV skinlabs skin balm is life changing

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Anne's avatar

Osmia Lip Doctor has worked wonders for me. Sometimes I apply it and then put Aquaphor over it for an added benefit.

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Katerina Furrer's avatar

Perennial lip balm addict over here with chronically dry lips (thanks to the Amsterdam wind). I used Lucas Paw Paw for years but it has officially been bumped by Dr Lipp Nipple Balm. Not sticky, stays on, actually conditions and hydrates rather than Aquaphor which is just occlusive.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

You had me at Nipple Balm

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Amanda's avatar

I think the Fresh advanced therapy lip balm actually works and is helpful when we change to winter and you need something extra! Laneige personally does nothing for me. I also like l’occitaine’s ultra lip balm (the stick) but it’s been a minute. Have been meaning to buy and try again

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Elizabeth Monson's avatar

Honestly CBD lip balms work the best for me - the more homemade + bought at a crunchy health store the better. Also love the WeedSport body balm. https://www.weed-sport.com/product/total-body

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Becca Andrews's avatar

Not gonna lie, I love Tatcha's Kissu lip mask, but I need a cheaper alternative for sure

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Emily Ferber's avatar

I have it but haven't given it a dedicated, no competitor try. Better than the Laneige?

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Becca Andrews's avatar

For me, absolutely. The Laneige wore off quicker, this one has more staying power.

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Jenna's avatar

A+D Original Ointment - super thick, kind of a strange smell, but wow does it protect and heal my lips.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Wow, new to me! LOVE the way it looks. Anything that makes me feel like I am actually a newborn baby in need of ultimate care and protection gets my purchase.

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Jenna's avatar

I figure if it's good enough for a baby's bottom, it's good enough for my lips!

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sara delgado's avatar

Honestly, nothing. Maybe homeoplasmine? I bought some in France this summer and I've been using it as my heavy duty nighttime lip balm, but I don't know if it rivals good ole Aquaphor.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

I got my first tube of Homeoplasmine this summer and I love how it makes me feel French, but beyond that? I'm not sold.

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Francesca Krihely-Price's avatar

I once used it on my face and got a horrid stye that took a month to go away :( so I threw it away

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Lara's avatar

I was on a course of Roacutane in 2015 and my dermatologist recommended (Australian brand) Dermal Therapy lip balm for the intense dry lips. I haven’t stopped buying it since- just the original. It has a light matte glossy finish making it a good alternative to a “make up lip gloss” too.

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Cait's avatar

I love lip products and buy a ton of them, but for night lip balm, I am devoted to Nuxe Reve de Miel-- in the pot, not the stick. It is just waxy enough that it grips and I wake up still able to detect that it was there. I am faithful to very few products, but Nuxe and I have had a very very long relationship. Aquaphor is also a regular on my nightstand, though I mainly use it for my cuticles.

For severely chapped lips, check out Shereene Idriss's 'lip basting' approach.

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Frances Hanson's avatar

I’m late to the game but Lanolips was my previous pick. It’s still great but it’s been dethroned by Eadem because it has an exfoliator built-in!!! Has a noticeably different effect than the other lip goops I’ve used. I love.

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Jane Herman's avatar

Nothing is better than Aquaphor. Also, curious to hear about Nelle... email me please info@theonlyjane.com. I have a Substack all about jeans and I am 5’4”!

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A H I's avatar

Highly highly recommend Lipsmart!

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Addison Cain's avatar

The Vaseline lip ointment in the little tub with cocoa butter in it. Also, echoing the rec to apply balm on damp lips. I will barely dry mine after washing my face, apply moisturizer all over, and then lip balm. I’m not sure how wise it is to put my face moisturizer on my lips but doing this before the Vaseline works well.

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Cadence Woodland's avatar

I love and swear by the Kiehl's Facial Fuel lip balm. Criminally undervalued imo!

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Lauren's avatar

So excited to try all of these recommendations. I've been slowly coming to terms with how sad I am over the Balm dot com reformulation :(

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Molly's avatar

Paula’s choice lip balm (in the pot, although the stick is also good if you want genuinely undetectable spf). It’s very simple but I’ve never found anything like it that STAYS (everything else lips are dry again in an hour)

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Ellie Eckert's avatar

Ok, C.O. Bigelow Chemists multi-purpose salve is the absolute best. https://www.bigelowchemists.com/c-o-bigelow-rose-salve-no-012.html

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Meagan Gonzaga's avatar

I will forever mourn the OG formula of the Bite Beauty Agave balm and mask. If you have any old tubes rolling around, they were gamechangers. Hydrated lips by the morning, every time.

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Elise's avatar

I suffer with terrible lip Ezcema and found Vaseline/Aquaphor dried them out even more! The only thing I’ve found that works is Lux Unfiltered smoothing lip serum it’s excellent!

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Gabi Segal's avatar

Yes will second that I like the Cerave Healing Ointment better. I also really like Bepanthen which is essentially a German diaper cream. It has a high concentration of panthenol which is what works so well in cicaplast. Kind of weird to put on but it heals so well

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Emily Ferber's avatar

have the avene cicapair -- maybe I need to use that plus an ointment on top...

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Gabi Segal's avatar

Also if you’re using a toothpaste with SLS I would switch. That always causes my lips/chin area to be so dry.

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Susan Hobbs's avatar

Also, put on lip balm before brushing teeth. That helps!

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Maddy's avatar

Lanolips! It’s the perfect dupe for the OG balm dot com. Comes in a bunch of flavors and tints but the 101 ointment is my fave.

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Francesca Krihely-Price's avatar

Last year I bought the Malin + Goetz lip balms on a whim and LOVED THEM! I lost it recently and I’m scheming on when to go downtown for a re-up https://www.malinandgoetz.com/lip-moisturizer-0-20oz-e7g

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Emily Ferber's avatar

I've never heard of this Dr. Dan but he intrigues me! I'm a sucker for really ugly branding (I'm serious) and this certainly fits the bill. Also love that it's a stick!

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Alex's avatar

Agreed! Dr. Dan's Cortibalm (I like the Chapstick one) is hands down the best! I was a die hard Aquaphor lover for 15+ years but felt it lost its potency over time and I had to apply it more frequently. Dr. Dan's is the holy grail, it keeps my lips so so hydrated and soft, and I've never had to apply it as much as I did with Aquaphor.

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Sarah Rentzel Jones's avatar

Came here to say this! I actually have a little pot of it and it’s lasted through the last year, am just about to repurchase. Last year it was the only thing that worked for me.

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Emily Ferber's avatar

Ok three votes means I have to buy it

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Addison Cain's avatar

Do you experience any side effects from long term topical steroid use with this? It sounds great I just have spent a lot of time on topical steroid withdrawal Tok 🫣

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